Are you affirming your way to a whole lot of nothing?
Are you visualizing a grand landscape that for some reason never seems to actually manifest into reality?
Are you consciously creating with clarity a cornucopia of coolness that curiously constructs…not much of anything?
Okay, I'll admit I got a little carried away with that last one, but you get the picture!
You are working the Law of Attraction for all it is worth, but you have yet to really see the type of results that you were looking for. In fact, despite how much you were excited about the concept, you are beginning to wonder if it all wasn't just a bunch of nonsense after all.
If that describes you, then have faith, Grasshopper. Your salvation is at hand!
Actually, it's at…well, it's everywhere! It's you. Or, to be more precise it's what you're not doing. Confused? Let's simplify this:
You are thinking about the Law of Attraction, or you are thinking about what you want, but you are not allowing yourself to become a vibrational match to it.
Oh, and for you non-believers in the Law of Attraction? Stick around, because this lesson will teach you to be successful, too!
The problem has become – in and out of the LOA circles – that people have allowed themselves to get far too caught up in the methods of achieving success, yet they have forgotten one very important thing.
Oh look – there it is! Right up in the header of the very website that you are reading right now:
Success is Something you Attract by the Person you Become.
It's that simple. The Law of Attraction (or your own self improvement strategy) is not working because you have not become a vibrational match with the things that you want to attract into your life. It's all about the way that you FEEL.
If you don't feel like the kind of person who has the things that you are attempting to bring into your life, you'll never have them.
Let's see a few examples:
You've been single for awhile, and the primary thing that you want to bring into your life is some hot young thang (said with appropriate southern drawl) who is so mentally and physically attractive that he/she needs a cadre of full-time bodyguards to fight off the masses.
Sounds great, right? Any of you who are in the situation of trying to conjure up a satisfying relationship will know what it is like to envision that "dream mate". So let me ask you this:
Are you that type of person? Do you walk around town so sure of your level of magnetism that you know for a fact that every individual you come across is saying either: A) I want that person, or B) I want to BE that person!
So, is that you? Is that how you feel when you go through your life? Are you that confident in who you are and what you have to offer? Honestly?
No? Well, then what makes you think you are going to attract someone who does feel that way?
By the way, I just used the "hot young thang" to illustrate my point. Whatever it is that you are looking for in a mate is what you should put yourself in vibratory alignment with. If you don't, you are doing the equivalent of saying:
"I want something, but I am not willing to be the type of person who deserves that thing."
That doesn't make a lot of sense where I come from…
Let's say your primary goal is to attract wealth. Moolah. Currency. CASH! You can do anything that you want if you have enough cash, right? So, it's a fine goal, but are you a vibrational match for being rich as you go about your day to day business? Do you walk, talk, and act like a rich person?
When you talk to other people, do you talk to them as if you are made of money? Do you have conversations with people as if you have no financial worries whatsoever?
Do you think that the average millionaire hangs around a coffee shop complaining about the cost of gas these days? Oh sure, he/she may discuss it as a political or economic issue, but that millionaire isn't about to drain his bank account while standing at the pump. I bet you have had a negative thing or two to say about it, though, haven't you?
What about your rent or your utility bill? Do you complain or worry or become distraught, angry, or frustrated about paying that? Again, put yourself in the shoes of a millionaire.
That millionaire might very well count every single red cent when it comes to his/her real estate dealings. However, it is only because they are being smart about money, and they are managing money, and they are at ease about money. Money doesn't control them, they control the money!
What about you? Are you vibrating on the same level as someone who controls money, or are you wondering where you are going to come up with the cash to pay your water bill?
In each of these examples (and there are endless others), the actual circumstances are irrelevant. It doesn't matter if you are trying to manifest a relationship, a pile of cash, a good job, or even just a low level of bodyfat, the circumstances are exactly the same:
If you don't feel and act like that person, you will never become that person!
Give this idea some thought. Go back and re-read this post a few times if you need to. Feel free to share it with your friends, and get their thoughts on the matter.
See if you can find anyone who says that you can act like one person, yet become a different person.
I'd love to hear your thoughts!