If you could have anything at all that you ever wanted, but you could only make one wish, what would you wish for?
QUICK! Don’t think – just answer!
The problems start when we start thinking, which is where the whole process of getting what we want out of life starts to break down – almost immediately.
We are powered by our conscious minds which control all of the decisions that we make seemingly “on purpose,” but our subconscious minds are the real powerhouse behind our thought processes – and thus – our results in life.
In the example above, you may have had a gut reaction to the question, like wanting a million dollars, or world peace, or the perfect mate, etc. However, as soon as your conscious mind started to analyze the situation, it immediately started throwing out reasons why you can’t have whatever it is that you thought of.
So the challenge before you now is to ignore for the moment what you think you can have, and be totally honest with yourself about what you would want if you could literally have anything that you could imagine. Is it something Worth Wanting?
Dr. Rob Williams and Dr. Bruce Lipton are the founders of the amazing Psych-K system of destroying the self-limiting belief systems that are often responsible for holding us back from attaining our peak potential.
However, in an interview that Dr. Williams recently did with Kelly Howell of BrainSync.com, he explained that getting rid of self-limiting beliefs is just the first stage of personal development.
It isn’t really that difficult for our conscious mind to grasp that unhealthy, unethical, or irresponsible practices are not good for us. However, many people fail because they are then stuck with answering the question of what it is that they do want.
Based on our almost instinctive ability to rationalize or use logic to determine whether or not it is even possible for us to attain any given goal, most human beings simply lack the internal programming needed to allow ourselves to believe that we can truly attain our most heartfelt desires.
So, rather than actually wanting to attain something that we have a burning desire for – something that we deem Worthy – we instead “settle” for what our internal programming says it is possible for us to actually get.
In the Psych-K workshops, Dr. Williams, Dr. Lipton, and several dozen other instructors around the world use a popular belief testing system called “muscle testing” to determine if the statements that we make about our lives are deeply rooted in the subconscious, or if those statements are just our conscious minds rationalizing and categorizing our beliefs about the world around us.
So, although this post is far from an infomercial for the Psych-K system (I’ve never been to one of their workshops), I do feel strongly about at least bringing up the very real truth that many people are going through their lives chasing after dreams that they think they can someday catch.
Knowing that is the case, ask yourself the following:
“If I could have anything that I wanted – no matter how far-fetched or unrealistic it seemed – what is worthy of me actually wanting it?”
When you have your answer, you’ll also have a direction for your life.
Pretty cool, huh? 
Aaron,
Another great post! Thanks……
Robert
Robert,
Glad you liked it, and I appreciate the positive feedback!
:)Aaron,
I wished for chocolate?! lol. = )
Oh, that’s a good one, Shama! LOL
p.s. – Don’t forget: We get by giving, so don’t forget to share!
I wished for the perfect me. That is happy with my health and fitness, happy with my achievements, happy with the many opportunities in front of me. Very hard to quantify but I can feel it in front of me. I just need to reach out a little further……….
Anne,
Both the fact that you can put it into words as well as the fact that you can feel it in front of you are powerful indicators that you can get there. Work on fine-tuning the specifics of your desires and you will get there.
Did you know that many people who are interviewed cannot even say off the top of their head what they want out of life?
We are so used to “putting out fires” and doing what is expected of us that some people never even set a hard and fast goal for their lives that they keep in the forefront of their minds on a daily basis.
You have verbalized your goal, you can feel it in your future, and now you just need to keep focusing on it.
Thanks for sharing!