Learning to invoke your personal development power means allowing yourself to grow into the best ‘you’ that you are capable of being. Since your best self has unlimited power, don’t you think it’s time you learned to access that power?
If you knew for a fact that there was a God or a Goddess of unlimited power inside of you right now, wouldn’t it be great to learn how to access their limitless abilities? Well, you do have a God or a Goddess inside of you, and gaining access to that power is very much within the reach of each and every mere mortal.
Accessing your Divine power requires a conscious effort, however. You don’t just stumble upon the thoughts, feelings, and actions that re-work the fabric of your own personal space-time continuum. If you want to change your stars (tip of the hat to A Knight’s Tale), then follow these steps for invoking your personal development power!
Decide
Your ability to part seas and walk on water means exactly nothing until you decide that you want to part seas and walk on water.
When a magician goes to pull a rabbit out of a hat, do you think that he just waves his magic wand and says “Give me something furry!” or do you think he decides that he wants a rabbit, rather than, say, a weasel? Granted, those types of magic tricks are all illusion, but to even pull off that illusion, the magician still had to decide that he was going to wow the audience by pulling a rabbit out of a hat.
Your unlimited power will bring you the unlimited ability to accomplish absolutely nothing unless you first decide what it is that you want to accomplish. Without a decision, your magic wand is nothing more than a fancy drink stirrer.
Commit
It would seem to go without saying that making a commitment to a given course of action is an integral part of bringing that course of action to life, but how many times have you or someone you know decided to do something, but then not followed through?
Commitments to ourselves or to others should not be taken lightly. When you truly commit to something, your attitude should immediately become Failure is NOT an option! If you leave yourself a safety net or a safe way out in case you are unable to fulfill your commitment, then you haven’t committed. If you feel the need to have a safety net or a safe way out, then you aren’t ready for that commitment, so don’t even bother trying.
Shout
How many people in your circle of influence know what your goals are, or what you are trying to accomplish? Your answer should be everybody! The basic business concept of “networking” works for a reason; because the more people who know what you are wanting to do, the better chance you have of getting it done.
If you want to have your house painted, but you don’t feel that you can afford it, shout it out! Tell your co-worker Suzie what you want, and what your concerns are. Suzie might not care, or be able to help you in some way, but that doesn’t mean that Suzie’s circle of influence won’t be able to help you. For all you know, Suzie is going to go home that day to find a flyer on her door that says “We do quality house painting for cheap!”
Now, imagine if you did that with every single person that you know. In fact, you want your house painted so badly that you keep on talking about it over and over again. Eventually, you are going to come across the resources that you need, and it is very likely that those resources will come from a direction that you could not possibly have imagined in advance.
Listen
What good is shouting for help if you don’t then listen to see if anyone responds?
Again, this very likely will not come in a direct form. You might just be strolling down the street and come across someone else who is getting their house painted, so you strike up a conversation with them. It turns out that their painters need another job as soon as possible, and they are willing to reduce their rates in order to get the work.
You might find out about a brand-new company that is offering discount services in order to get their name out in the community, or you might come across a retiree who loves to paint houses, and he would be happy to paint your house for a lot less than the current rates being charged by local companies.
The point is that the more you shout it out, the more you should pay attention to what happens afterwards. Also – be patient. This process is not always immediate, but it is always effective.
Expect
To get what you want, you have to expect to get what you want. Often, your attitude of expectation is enough to convince other people to help you out, even if they aren’t getting something in return!
Your stark confidence in the fact that you are going to attain your desires makes people say “Wow, this girl/guy has it all figured out.” When people have those types of thoughts, they are automatically drawn into your networking process, and they become a part of the solution.
I worked a gym once, and the Fitness Manager was not the most ethical health and fitness practitioner, but that didn’t stop him from making a huge paycheck because of his attitude of expectation. He would walk into a meeting with potential new gym members with an attitude of “You ARE joining this gym, and you ARE buying personal training!”. Before you knew it, people were signing on dotted lines and busting out their credit cards.
People are attracted to confidence and they listen to confident people. By keeping an attitude of expectation that you WILL be getting your way, you will inspire the world at large to make sure that is exactly what happens.
Believe
The belief that you will get what you want is similar to your expectation, but belief is at a higher level, and speaks more to the lifestyle that you’ll be leading once you get what you want, rather than just the expectation that you are going to get it.
- When you believe that you are going to be wealthy, you are already making plans for what to do with that money.
- When you believe that you are going to lose weight, you are already making plans for what kind of clothes you are going to wear, and how your lifestyle is going to change as a result of the weight loss.
- When you believe that you are going to find your soul-mate, you are already making plans for the things that you and him or her will do together, and how wonderful it will all be.
Belief is even more powerful than expectation because not
only are you expecting to get what you want, but you are already planning the next stage in the journey. Doing so further empowers you to do things like sticking to your commitment, shouting to more people, listening for more answers, and fully expecting to get whatever it is that you want.
Enjoy
What’s the point of all of this if you aren’t going to enjoy the journey, as well as the prizes along the way? If the tasks that are involved in you attaining your desires make you sad, confused, angry, or even just bored, then why are you doing them?
When your heart is 100% involved with attaining your desires, then the tasks along the way – although sometimes mundane – will still be done with joy and enthusiasm because you know for a fact that by doing those tasks, you will get what you want.
If your tasks do not fill you with joy and a sense of bountiful expectancy, then that is a big red flag that you may be on the wrong path. You may be working towards something that you feel you are supposed to be doing or that you are good at, but it isn’t something that you truly want for your life.
Your journey towards what you want to get out of life should be just as much fun as actually getting there. If you aren’t enjoying the ride, you might want to get off at the next stop and find a route that brings you as much joy as you expect the end result to bring you.
Do you see a pattern developing here? Every step that was just listed not only builds upon the previous steps, but it all culminates in the final step – Enjoy– which was the initial goal to begin with, wasn’t it?
Whatever it is that we are after in our lives, it is because we want joy and happiness. Yes, we may take part in tasks or actions that are not directly related to our own happiness, yet we take part in those tasks or actions because we choose to do so in order to attain whatever it is that we personally want.
It’s OK to be self-centered in life. Being self-centered means that you insist on living life on your terms, as opposed to being selfish, which means that you insist on OTHER people living life on your terms.
Be self-centered, Invoke your personal development power, and Create a wonderful life for yourself.
Do you see how each one of those words is a present-tense action? The present is the only time you will ever have. Please use it wisely.
Wow you should have just called this 7 simple steps to personal power! Great titles and powerful concepts. While all those steps seem good, I feel like you are leaving a lot to chance with simple instructions like believe and expect. Maybe you need to include more detailed instructions on how we can be proactive in achieving success without becoming worriers or wasting our time. All in all a very nice post!
Christopher Truman
Thanks for your comment, Christopher!
I think that people get confused when faced with concepts such as “believing” or “expecting”. It’s not like those concepts by themselves are confusing, but but rather that the confusion comes in when people think that is all they need to do.
There will always be action steps that people need to take, and those action steps will be dependent on many different factors. However, in addition to that, concepts such as believing and expecting are just as much a part of the process as any given action step, and they are also ways for us to achieve success mentally, which then transmutes into success out in the “real world”.
Cool article there. Funny that usually it is only when people have no other choice will they decide & commit to something. And that is what pulls them through to success.
I have definitely not heard or thought about shouting your desire to everyone and listening for the answers part. Seems like a really great idea and it makes perfect sense to do that.
Great job!
Hey, Ethan!
As in the response that I gave to Christopher, those concepts are simply a part of the process that then enhance your chances for success.
It’s funny, because all of these things end up boiling down to the same thing when you think about it – Focus.
When we stay focused intensely on our goals, things like believing in them and committing to them are implied and automatic, rather than something that needs conscious thought on our part.
Hm, I hadn’t seen the connection by believing and focusing. If your powers and thought are focused on these instructions to invoke personal power, obviously one would achieve it! Thanks 🙂
Chris,
One of the easiest to remember phrases in this regard is What you think about, you bring about. The more you think about any given thing, the more the world around you will conform to those thoughts. It’s a beautiful thing! 🙂
Thanks for your comment, Chris!
Ref: shout
On Saturday a friend of my son Pedro came to sleep at our place. He had never been here. He’s also 7. When he saw my drumset he asked who played the drums and Pedro answered, very seriously and convinced:
‘My mother. She’s going to be soon touring around the world with a famous band.’
WOW. That was the greatest gift I could receive, I swear.
That showed that I’m transmitting the right stuff in the right way. And, obviously, if I have this little angel on my side, things will be easier.
Well, in fact, I saw a little shadow of doubt or fear crossing his eyes and I quickly jumped to add: ‘AND YOU ARE COMING WITH ME’. He smiled and said sth about school, etc., but we were connected.
Progressively mastering all this is SO MUCH FUN.
All the best,
Patricia
Patricia,
You make a great point about the little angels being part of the process. People tend to think that the communication channels need to be huge and all-encompassing, but in truth, all it takes is one person saying the right thing to the right person, and the wheels of fate are set in motion.
How great is it that one of your “shouters” is your own son?? 🙂
Completely agree!
And you know how this goes… by now my son’s friend is probably very convinced that I’m touring soon… ‘Only one’ may mean many, too.
Congratulations on your moving to the life you want. You always lead by the example: we knew it for long that you wanted to live by the beach and in my case, I have always imagined you there, never in the middle of a town!
Thanks for having that great vision of me, Patricia! I live in Orlando, FL right now, and even though it is one of the tourist capitals of the entire world, it is just too landlocked for my tastes. I want the openness of the sea!
I’ll look forward to you and your band coming to play in the seaside places near my stretch of sand!! 🙂
🙂